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  • krystal silsbee texas #1785994 » Posted in: My online family

    just wanted to ask a life long favor my grandmother has bee sick and in the hospital since before christmas and is not doing well at all and i know she has said she would love to meet madea in person so i ask can you please make her wish come true

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  • Beverly McCall Los Angeles #1785993 » Posted in: Temptation: Confessions Of A Marriage Counselor

    I will get excited when I'm cast in your next movie!

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  • A God man will always be GODS man! peering thru my telescope! #1785992 » Posted in: My online family

    It's just fun watching Mr.Perrys life. If He weren't a Christian I wouldn't give him the time or day as it relates to following his life...Please there are other writers, and producers. Spike, David Talbert, and etc. This man is interesting because clearly GOD is at work in his life...the world needs to see GODS hand and perrys battles won. The dude is bad...any woman that misses her window of opportunity is s.o.l. bottom line. Girl friend will learn to do better next time. In this life time waits for no man or woman for that matter so really at the close of a day it is all good especially,especially,especially when it is all GOD.. Good is good and what more can you ask...??? Adam and eve missed the mark 1 time...and because of their mistake I have been redeemed so thank you Adam...Thank you Eve...your lives ultimately has been a blessing to my life, all of our lives. Now we know the price we pay for disobiendience!!!! (it cost ya something to)

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    • I like all the people #1785995

      you mentioned. I support all of their works. I went to David Talbert's last play the last time they were in my city and I'm on his mailing list. I voted for his wife when she was competing for a show on the OWN Network.

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    • Kasandra Delaware #1785996

      Well said!

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    • ms Lovely Lady L NY #1785998

      Good night it was nice chatting with you. Don't make your self a strange to me on this board . As you get to know me you will realize I am easy going fun loving and trustworthy.Do not like stress or to be stressed. I am going to bed talk to you another time.

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    • I bought Spike Lee's #1785999

      wife's book, Gotham Diaries. I thought it was really good and recommended to a few people. But I wonder why David Talbert and his wife have been together so long and don't have kids. They need to have some babies. They are a very attractive, intelligent, educated couple, who seem to really love and care about each other. They'd have great kids. *************** Oh, I guess I'm following their life too much.

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    • Kasandra Delaware #1786001

      I have seen every one of Tyler's movies on opening weekend and I'll be at the theater again in March. He is at the top of this Movie game. I also purchased DVD copies of many of his films. Why Did I get Married and Madea's Family Reunion actually helped me complete the coursework for my doctorate (writing now). They kept me company while working late nights. I pray that God continues to use him as an instrument to uplift and enlighten.

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    • Tyler will be okay #1786003

      I used to be a really big fan. I come here becasue this message board can be interesting sometimes when I'm bored. But to be honest, I don't follow Tyler like I used to. I did not see the last couple of plays that came out on DVD. I was not going to go out of my way to see Alex Cross. I saw it because while out, a friend suggested we see it. I really don't plan on going to see the next movie. I am not opposed to it or anything (like because KK is in it). If I'm out with friends and they want to go like last time, I'll go, but I won't be rushing out of my way to see it. Tyler is alright and will be alright. I have prayed for him in the past. I won't be praying for him anymore, unless something serious happens, I guess. It's just that there are so many other people out her who needs prayer way more than Tyler and I'm starting to realize that. We need to take care of what's going on in our own backyards more.

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    • Kasandra Delaware #1786004

      Sure! I pray for everyone, including myself. In God's eyes we are all equals. I'm not a KK fan, but there are other people in the film. I do what I'm compelled to do, no matter what. I'm out, way too much time on this site this weekend. Back to my reality.

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    • I spend too much time #1786008

      on the internet, period! This is why I need to get boo'd up real quick to occupy my time. I spend too much time of FaceBook, it's just ridiculous. My girlfriend and I made a pact that for New Year's we are going to get hooked up. Whoever gets hooked up first will hook the other one up with one of his friends. We realized we have way too much time on our hands and need some other interests, lol.

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    • My girlfriend and I came up with #1786009

      an plan. We are not turning down any dates this year. We are not going to over think it, we are going to just jump into it. Even if we think the person is definitely not the one. We are going to go with it and treat it like an adventure. We are going to start blogging about our experiences. So far, she has had a couple and man, she could probably write a script about it. They were not good catches. I told her don't get discouraged and that she has to just treat it like an adventure and find enjoyment in the process, even if it just gives her a good story to tell later. Any, when I say just jumping out there, neither one of us are that bold. The guys she went out with were considered "safe." She met them through mutual friends who knew them (although they were not for her, lol) and twice she went on double dates with the friends who were attempting to hook them up.

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    • Kasandra Delaware #1786012

      Do you! Is getting a boo the answer to too much time on your hands? Afterall, healthy relationships (in my opinion) require that both people have their own interests. Perhaps you should find something you enjoy doing because boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. Being single is also not a bad thing. Life is truly what you make it. I'm in a very different place. I definitely don't have too much time on my hands. My work, school and contemplating the world's problems keep me super busy. I've enjoyed a lazy week away from it all. It's good to replenish. Simple adventures serve as necessary distractions at times.

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    • That was my problem #1786018

      I was in a marriage that was so bad that I stopped dating. I woke up onenday and realized that life was passing me by and I was letting that person rob me of life. I started doing things to occupy my time. Those things are great. But, I was put on this planet to love and be loved and be a wife fjrst. I believed that once. When I got back to that place all those other things no longer sustained me. I have been single way too long because of one fool. But, what I dont like about this site, I really hate it actually, is that the people who come here seem to have such distorted views on relationships. Actually that was probably my purpose for coming here. It made me realize that I gave up dating for the wrong reasons. Too many people on this site have been used and abused in relationships. They talk a good game about love, but I honestly dont think many here have experienced or felt that real good type of love from the opposite sex. That js the best thing in this worldand coming here made me remember that. It really bothers me that so many people who come on this site, have that attitude that relationships are not necessary. You should put God first in your relationship, but dont use God to say relationships are not necessary because you should love God so much, you dont need no o e else.

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    • I am really sickened by #1786020

      that attitude. My very short term goal is to get boo'd up. I'm saying it loud and clear to all the holy rollers around here. People are going to talk about you so all the holy rollers can talk their heads off. I don't have to explain why I want to and I don't want to hear about why I don't need nothing but Jesus. Everytime I mention on this board that my goal is to get boo'd up everybody start talking about all you need is Jesus, wait on the Lord. I want to know what the heck are y'all waiting on and have y'all waited so long that y'all done missed out too many times. I'm not missing out any longer. Y'all can just start calling me Stella because I'm about to get my groove back.

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    • Kasandra #1786022

      I actually came on the site to post a message to Tyler in response to his last email blast. I absolutely LOVE love. There is no greater gift. More so, I LOVE the act o f loving - people. Most of us have suffered heartache in many forms, and it definitely impacts the ways in which we communicate with the opposite sex. And many of us haven't seen good models of loving relationships. I have dreamed of a place where it exists boldly, in my mind of course. Relationships are absolutely necessary. I'm not one of those women who say I don't need a man. What I've never done is look for a relationship to define me. I think about it, but it doesn't rule my life. What I won't do is allow negative situations to rob me of a desire to one day find a healthy and mutually beneficial relationship. Until then, I will make the best of life and pray that God gives me the desires of my heart in right time.

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    • Sweet! #1786023

      ...

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    • Kasandra #1786024

      Your choice. Waiting on the lord is necessary. He puts people before us all of the time, but most people don't follow his guide. Instead we make the choose mates that feed our superficial urges. Relationships are suppose to complete. If so, we may need to find people who will compliment us, which means they may be different from us in ways. I'm waiting on the lord; and, now, I'm listening. He wants us to procreate.

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    • Kasandra #1786025

      I meant to say - instead we choose mates....

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    • so many people #1786026

      on this site seem to think relationships are something foreign. Like being in a relationship is going to change your relationship with Jesus or comes with all these barriers. You have to pray more, ask more do this, do that before you get in a relationship. Well, Im never going to be perfectand I am not looking for perfection. There ks someone out here for me who will love my ungrateful messed up self, all the bumps bruises stretch marks and all. They will accept me right where I am and know that I am not perfect and never will be. And Im glad I know the Lord because He told me that any other way is not from Him.

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    • Kasandra #1786028

      We are all messed up in some way. We want to be accepted for who we are....but we need to be and present our best self as much as possible... LOL

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    • Kasandra #1786030

      As I mentioned moments ago, I came on this site the other day to post a message to Tyler after receiving his message about digging. I wrote from my heart as I often do. Then I starting reading the emails. It seems that this website offers more. Many people may feel they follow Tyler because he is funny as hell, makes great movies and plays. But, it seems to me that people are following a God source that inspires hope and LOVE. Relationships may be foreign to them, but they desire them so much. They just haven't figured out that they must start beyond the flesh!

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    • Well #1786032

      all I can be is all I am. If that's not good enough, then oh well, keep it moving. Move, get out the way so that I can find the right one. We should strive to always improve. People present their best up front, then you realize later it was just a temporary front.

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    • Procreating is a wonderful thing... #1786033

      IF it's done with the RIGHT person. It's imperative to ensure this is the person you can be a partner with for the duration of your child being a minor and many times longer. What is your idea/assumption for what a mother should be? Can the person you are planning to procreate be this person? What is your idea/thought on what the father should be for the child? How should these ideas be carried out per person? What should the mother & father be to each other? Be sure to discuss these ideas/ thoughts with your partner to ensure that jointly you can carry out your duties. Take inventory of your partner. How do they respond to you? Do they fulfill you? Do they honestly complete you? Now take your emotions, out of the equation, for the person. Do they complete you physically, mentally, emotionally? How 'bout spiritually? Is the potential there? At least to the 80%? If there is true potential, you're working with something. If not, re-assess procreating with that person. Life is a lesson. Whomever don' t learn the lesson is destined, perhaps, to repeat it.

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    • True #1786034

      People from all walks come here for different reasons. Based on individual needs and perception, all will receive differently.

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    • Kasandra #1786035

      And there is someone out there who will love you. Until you find him, F.L.Y ( First Love You) and consider the qualities that your man should have to compliment you and you him. Then pray a lot and listen. Then get ready to be boldly vulnerable.

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    • Those are really great questions #1786037

      Everyone who plans to have kids should ask them. I wont be having anymore kids so that wont be a factor.

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    • Kasandra #1786038

      You are so right about Procreation. That's why I'm not a mother. I mentioned it in in response to a comment made about women using JESUS as all they need. The bible supports relationships, and ultimately procreation. But, I hear ya!

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    • Kasandra #1786039

      Kids - don't know. I mother so many now. If it happens okay. If it doesn't, I will adopt. In fact, I've always wanted to adopt.

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    • before I met my ex #1786040

      I'll make this quick because my resolution is to leave that part behind.But anways, I was probably the most open person you could ever meet. I had no problem with being vulnerable and wore my emotions on my sleeve, I wasnt tryi g to be like that, I just didnt know how to be any other way. He was the type that. if you showed any sign of weakness, he'd totally destroy you. He saw it as an opportunity to break you down. The more emotion you show or vulnerability you display, the harder he would attack you. I always had a tough exterior, but I had to learn quick to not let my guard down in order to survive util I got out. I was always walking around prepared for battle with my guard up. The world became a battlefield. I really hated him for that.

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    • kids are great #1786042

      UNfortunately for me, I never thought of those questions until after they were born. Parenthood has been up and down. Im sure I would have had more ups and less downs had I answered those questions before hand. Inspite of it all, it has definitely been the best part of my life. I love being a parent but when I get married, I will not be having any more kids or adopting. God blessed me and allowed me to raise them. I have no desire to start over, bump that! Time to get my groove back.

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    • Kasandra #1786043

      You're right people do present their best self at first. One of the biggest problems with relationships. I truly do believe in honesty. I think vulnerability is necessary to have a great relationship, and vulnerability = honesty and a willingness to communicate those truths. If you present someone else from the beginning, you better stay in close contact with your twin. :- This place I dream of encourages honesty at all times.

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    • Kasandra #1786046

      Why do you have to wait to get your groove back? Tomorrow is not promised.

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    • Yep, #1786047

      He did a good job of that. I had never experienced that b4 him and I thought Id seen alot. But, I learned not to show emotion.The worst part was I didnt trust myself anymore. I didnt trust myself to use good judgment when meeting people. I was really tough and felt I could handle him, but I didnt realize for a while the toll it took on me. I had to relearn tof trust God.

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    • kasandra #1786048

      Sounds like you had a bad experience. I understand why you don't want to bring it up, but it's good that you can talk about it. I certainly can understand why your guard is up. But, there are good people out there. If you are honest, the person for you will LOVE you and your guard. If a person uses your vulnerabilities against you, they should be dropped - early! I, too, have a guard. But, as I said, I LOVE love. My desire to give and receive LOVE encourages me to remain open until something presents itself. It's important to make sure new people aren't blamed for the behaviors of others.

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    • Getting my groove back #1786049

      still has to be with the right one.

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    • I dont blame #1786051

      anyone but him. Actually I got sick and tired of doing that, so it was what it was. I dont believe in blaming people or holding them accountable for something that has nothing to do with them. And really that person is controlling your relationships ship ifnyou bring their behavior into it.

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    • Kasandra #1786052

      God will lead you, but you must listen! It's a great feeling when God speaks to you. We must always make sure we can tell God's voice from our own. The flesh can make us do and think CRAAAZYY! Also, i should have said this earlier, bu, abuse makes it hard for people to trust.

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    • whats really strange to me #1786054

      is when I walked away from tbe relationship, I didnt look back. I have dated and was kn a relationship that lasted a few years. That person was never a factor or issue. I didnt even think about them. Then way down the road something set off a trigger. I didnt realize until way later how much I was affected by it. Thats just kind of strange. But even in the other relationships, I guess was always guarded. Definitely tougher than I was in the re, ationships b4 that one.

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    • Kasandra #1786055

      Getting your groove back should be with the right one. If so many people never witnessed healthy relationships, it makes it difficult for them to know what to do - right? Dating could be the start of you getting your groove back. You will have to interact a little before you find the right one.

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    • since you said that #1786056

      because I grew up tough and fought back and was able to thwart him most of the time, I never thought of it as abuse. I thought he was just tripping. Plus, I was a fighter. But the way he fought, it was just something really sinister about it.

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    • Kasandra #1786057

      I can relate on some level. I think abuse is like a virus. It lays dormant in the body/mind and then all of a sudden there is an outbreak. There is no cure. You just hope to treat it enough to avoid outbreaks. I think it's healthy for all victims of abuse to get counseling, and I think it's important for them to communicate their stories to people they want to date seriously.

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    • Kasandra #1786059

      A relationship that involves fighting is an abusive relationship.

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    • of course #1786060

      I dont plan on just getting buck wild. Ill get my groove back within reason

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    • Kasandra #1786062

      LOL! You mean you are going to have a conversation first.....a cup of coffee.....a hug...LOL?! Good! Time is ticking, but some things can't or shouldn't be rushed.

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    • true #1786063

      I realize that now. Actually it was having kids that made me realize that. Before the kids came along, I honestly thought that fighting, even getting physical, in relationships was normal as long as you could hold your own. Only if you were getting beat down was it abuse. I fought back hard so he was reluctant to get physical, but tne emotional abuse was just as horrific.

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    • Kasandra #1786065

      I'm thankful that Ive never had to fight anyone in a relationship. In fact, my relationships all ended amicably. There were some hurt feelings, but no hard feelings.

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    • that sounds wild #1786067

      go me now. But, that is how I was raised and believed. I grew up in an environment where the women were the ones beating up their spouses, seriously.

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    • Kasandra #1786068

      I'm sure it's easier said than done, but don't let the experience harden your heart. In future relationships - platonic or romantic - you want to be as free as possible to give and receive LOVE.

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    • That's cool #1786069

      Some, but not all of mine were amicable. I had to fight my way out of a few, started a few fights. Had my car vandalized, busted somebodys window out to get my stuff out of there. Been harassed, had to change my number. Bump that. When I think about that stuff I probably dont ever need to date again

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    • those things happened #1786070

      when I was very young. Since I had kids, I try to avoid all drama as much as possible

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    • Kasandra #1786071

      Wow! Question: who did they window breaking, etc?

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    • someone #1786072

      vandalized my car b4. I broke the window to my own house because someone locked themselves in there and wouldnt open the door. I broke the window and went in swinging. I was about 19 or 20.

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    • Kasandra #1786073

      Got it! Did your children ever witness any of this?

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    • Kasandra #1786075

      It's good you were able to fight back! So many women don't.

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    • never #1786076

      all of those thing happened b4 I had kids. I had an issue wjth violence when the 1st one was in diapers. At that point, I never allowed that to happen again.

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    • Everyone is not #1786077

      taught to fight. And, honestly, no one should have to. My kids are not being raised like I was. They are definitely not fighters and I pray that they never have to.

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    • Kasandra #1786078

      Good for you! I pray that God leads you to the desires of your heart. I'm glad I don't have to work tomorrow, but I can barely keep my eyes open. It's been good chatting with you.

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    • i ended my #1786079

      marriage because I did not want them to grow up in a toxic household. That was my motivation to leave. It was bad. I left when they were in diapers, they have no memory of it.

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    • Kasandra #1786081

      It sounds like you're a great mom. I grew up in a single parent household, so I have great deal of respect for women who actively work to secure the future success of their kids. If I had on a hat and your were in my presence, I'd tip my hat to you.

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    • Kasandra #1786082

      How are you doing now?

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    • Kasandra #1786083

      And I don't have respect for men who abuse women....I pray for the mothers who are in these negative situations and can't get out.

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    • Kasandra #1786124

      I was super tired towards the end of our conversation last night. Everyone has there struggles. Most of us have been in situations where we didn't fight, mainly because we never learned how to fight that particular battle. I'm glad you made it out of your situation, so many don't. Even when they make it out, the impact remains. It's hard to be too honest on sites like this. I"d like to share with you the gift of the poem Invictus by Ernest Hemingway. I refer to it often. "Out of the night that covers me, black as the pit from p*** to pole, I thank whatever Gods maybe, For my unconquerable soul,---In the fell clutch of circumstance, I have not winced or cried aloud, Under the bludgeonings of chance, My head is bloody, but unbowed ----Beyond this place of wrath and tears, Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years, Finds, and shall find, me unafraid, --- It matters not how straight the gate, How charged with punishment the scrolls, I am the m***** of my fate, I am the captain of my soul. The challenges and hurts may forever be etched in our minds, but the way we cope and heal can be different. Cheers to moms who give their best. That's all anyone can really do. Happy Monday! Blessings....

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    • Kasandra #1786132

      or happy Tuesday! Doesn't matter if it's happy! :-)

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    • Beautiful #1786152

      poem

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  • Felicie Spencer Denham Springs, LA #1785990 » Posted in: My online family

    Hey Tyler, I don't usually post comments to anything. But, I'm from the Westbank of NO and your home-girl so I feel like your fam. I just read in the Times Picayune that OWN is doing a docu-series at John Mc. High. Did you attend? Blessing and favor....

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  • Brenda Louise Hudson Pembroke Pines, FL #1785986 » Posted in: My online family

    Hello Tyler Perry: I did try to post a letter (more like an Epistle) to you. Somehow it did not get posted. How strange! It took some time to write! So.......I'll write in again soon! Happy New Year.....All the best in 2013! Respectfully submitted, Brenda Louise

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  • Alfreda Stone Mountain, GA #1785983 » Posted in: Temptation: Confessions Of A Marriage Counselor

    Looking forward to the movie, I know I will love it as I do all of your work. So happy and proud of you. Not real happy about Kim K., but she's your choice and I will just have to deal with it. Just hope the next time you think about all of the 'real' actress', with something going on about them, like class and morals, who may be looking for work.

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  • Author Michelle Brown st.anne #1785982 » Posted in: My online family

    Hi Mr.Perry I am Author Michelle Brown I wrote the memoir called This girls life:Being the child of a war vetetan it is a story on a little girl survival in the home of her alcoholic and drug addict dad please read

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  • Joshua Frost Farmington, Ky #1785977 » Posted in: My online family

    Hello Mr. Perry, my name is Josh Frost and I live in western KY, I have 3 children and I was wondering what it would take to have Madea come and give them an attitude adjustment they are out of control and I have tried everything I can do.

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  • Brenda Louise Hudson 1881 NW 140 Terrace, Pembroke Pines, FL 33028 #1785972 » Posted in: My online family

    P.S. Tyler Perry: ................I apologize for such a long epistle! Respectfully submitted, Brenda Louise Hudson

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  • ZMO1 Schenectady, NY #1785969 » Posted in: My online family

    Hello, I am writing this to you because no one listens or even cares about what I say or what I'm all about. I enjoy reading your posts they inspire me to be the best that I can be. What touched me the most was what you wrote about your mom loving Christmas. My mother did too, but in 2002, I lost her to cancer. Ever since that, I have not celebrated any of the holidays. I feel so alone without her. She always told me that one day you will do what you dreamed, so far that has not happened, but I still try. Your words keep me going because they remind me of something my mother would say. So, please keep up the posts I really enjoy them, sometimes they help me through my day knowing that someone actually went through things I went through. Thank you for reading this...

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  • Philicic Venning Chareston,S.C #1785961 » Posted in: My online family

    I THING SO MUCH OF YOU. YOU ARE VERY HANDSOME PERSON, ENJOY WATCING ALL OF YOUR MOVIES AND PLAYS YOU ARE A GOOD ACTOR. WHAT CAN I DO TO BE ONE OF YOUR PERSONAL FRIEND B THE WAY I JUST OT A DIVOCE AFTER 27YRS TOGETHER HE DESIRED HE WANTED OUT BUT WE READY BEEN TOGETHER FOR 34 YRS. I REMEMBER THE PLAY YOU BRING TO CHARLESTON S.C IN 2000 IT WAS ABOUT A OLD MAN WANT YOUNG WOMAN,HE IS 54 WHILE SHE IS 39 LOOK 65 I WOULD FEEL BETTER IF SHE HAD LOOK BETTER THAN BUT NOT SO. I DON'T REMEMBER OF THE PLAY BUT YOU SPEAK ABOUT THE EASTSIDE,MARY ST JUST SOME HIGH LIGHT ON THE PLAY YOU MIGHT REMEMBER WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. GOD GET HE GLORY OF EVERYTHING

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  • Key Key az #1785958 » Posted in: My online family

    Okay, I'm back long day every long day. I'm a little depressed my vacation is over back to making the dounts.

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    • Love #1785960

      (smiling) "donuts"

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    • Key Key az #1785965

      You remember the old donut commercial where the donut man says "time to make the donuts!" Or the dount scene from I Love Lucy oh no I'm showing my age.

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    • Love #1785974

      LOL... YEAH !

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    • Key Key az #1785975

      Going to watch a movie so God night, sweet dreams.

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    • Love #1785989

      Back At Ya !

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    • Kasandra Delaware #1785991

      Wishing you a productive week! Good night!

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