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I Thank God For Closed Doors

When I wake up in the morning and see the sunrise as I’m running, I thank God for new mercies every day. As I was running this morning I started thinking about this and you know how much I like to share my morning thoughts… LOL

I was out just thinking about my life and all the times that I wished that a door had opened. All the times I had promoters and people lie to me saying that they would help me... I remember wishing the bank would approve my loan request for a house or a car (usually one I couldn’t afford at the time). I wished that this person would help me or that person would do something to help my business, or this person would help my dreams come true. 

As I look back now I’m so glad that none of those situations worked out. I’m so glad God closed those doors because they forced me to find the right path for me. If you’re in this situation and you feel like doors are closing all around you and you are frustrated, here’s something I’d like you to think about: Life can be like a living maze. You know what a maze is. In a maze, you start out at one end and your objective is to find your way to the finish line.

Many times you may make a turn and hit a dead end and you have to go another way. Just like life, that door closing on you sends you another way. It doesn’t mean it’s not going to happen, it just means you need to go another way. If you keep moving, eventually you will get to where you’re going.

Another thing that is important when you’re in a maze, as in life, is to remember where you have been. If you get turned around and confused in a maze, in order to get out, you have to remember the dead-ends that you have already hit. Just like in life you have to remember all the doors that were closed so you don’t waste time going that way again. If you want to get to your dreams you can’t expect to get there by doing the same thing and going to the same spots. You must try something different. I’m not saying give up on your dream, I’m saying try another path to the same dream. Same maze, same dream, but take a different direction to get there.

I feel sorry for people who have a dream and give up because it gets hard. Let me tell you something, "IT’S GOING TO GET HARD!" And my answer to that is, "SO WHAT? MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!" Don’t stop because a door closed. I have learned to thank God for closed doors. You have to know that if God wanted you to go that way, no man could close that door. But for some reason he allowed that door to be closed, but if that one was closed I assure you that there is one that is open somewhere. And it’s the right one. Don’t stop until you are living your dream. 

Is this helping anybody?

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  • Cheri Daniels Sacramento, CA

    Tyler thank you so much for sharing this message! God used you to help others, because your message helped me to keep going through my maze until I fulfill my dreams! You're a blessing to me for this message! Thank God for bringing me some encouragement!!!!

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  • Pamela Georgia

    What are you trying to say, Mr. Perry? That I need to stop asking you for help? (LOL). That it is up to me to make my own dreams come true? That every time I knock on your door, it will remain closed? And, talking about a maze, I find it a-MAZING that you never answer back (LOL). Like a dead end (smile). But seriously though, I realize that you cannot help everybody, and I sincerely appreciate your words of inspiration and encouragement. They may just be the antidote I need to get me out of the slump that I am in and back to pressing forward again. Thank you so very much, and may all of your dreams come true. God's blessings.

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  • Tony Roberts United States

    Hello Mr. Perry. I totally agree that when you have closed doors, there will be another one that will be open just for you. The right door. I am going through this experience right now. It is very rough trying to reach my dreams. Through Christ everything is possible. God will have the final word. It's not over until he says it is over. Pray for me.

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  • Tonya Hendricks Houston Tx.

    Thank you as my heart is full and tears fall.I lost my teaching job after 39 years.I have taught in Europe and throughout the U.S.Its sad to think that wisdom is no longer appreciated but as Tremaine Hawkins sings I never lost my hope,my joy,my faith,I never lost my praise .

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  • Anthony Harper

    Mr. Perry, I appreciate this email, it speaks to what I am going through now. I recently graduated with my MFA in film and have been looking for work and also put my short film into festivals, and it can be discouraging when you don't get the call back, or the notice of acceptance. And you know I know about the false promises people make when it comes to this field lol Sometimes faith can be tested when your dreams seem so far from the reality that surrounds you at the moment, but your words were very encouraging and truly lifted my spirits. Thank you, in my heart I know my path is being paved, this was a great reminder!

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  • Mimi aka Marlena Duluth, GA

    Tyler, This has really helped me. I feel as though there is something greater for me. Actually I know it is. Ok, so here's a breakdown, I get married at 26, husband leaves me at 7 months of pregnancy for another woman (imagine coming home from work to an empty house), divorce with child at 27... nasty divorce and child custody, had an affair which led to a dream to help my lover find his father that he never knew for 30 years (true story); got cleaned up from that saga in my life as if I did not know any better, went through a purification period, relocated from Ohio to DC, then from DC to Atlanta and then to DC landing right back in Atlanta (where my roots are....I have 100 deceased relatives buried in Fayetteville at the Penson Cemetary) and God sends me the husband that I needed after 25 years of being single. Won't he do it? Chasing dreams and promotions all while at the same time finding myself and completing a BA in Psychology, Masters in Administration and PhD, ABD in management and had done a little acting in a church play playing a key role. Amazing how my mess has become my ministry Now I am headed to the Ministry and will soon publish several books. Talk about a maze! So yes, I feel ya on this one! Love ya. P.S. Not asking for any favors this time. I'll be supporting your shows "Love thy Neighbor" and the "Have and Have Nots" which I simply find intriguing and reminds me of the black version of the "Young and the Restless".

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  • Angela Detroit

    I understand and I believe and I'm all ready to go! But I'm scared, I need help in getting out of my comfort zone. As babies we aren't born to fear, fear is taught and I'm sad to say, well I'm just telling the truth I'm scared, nervous and sometimes I actually feel I don't deserve happiness because I haven't been obedient to all the laws of my Father GOD. How can someone willing to die or kill for their country be scared? I'm human but I will reflect and meditate on the. Message... thank you.

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    • Lady Que Chicago #1839683

      I'm assuming our comments should only be for Tyler on this page, but I really want to just encourage Angela from Detroit. Everyone is aquainted with fear but the trick is to not let it stop you, I know easier said than done. When it comes to fear you have to just change your mind on the matter and truly decide to go another way. I understand what its like to fear but once you decide to not let it handicap you, you will reap the benefits of the decision that you made. If you think about it, fear is just the assumption of what you THINK could happen, but you won't know if you don't push past it. I would like to recommend a small booklet for you called " Do it Afraid" by Joyce Meyer, I think it will help you. Also, from your letter it sounds like you are a soldier or in the military in some capacity. Guess what? I'm pretty sure you were afraid when you made that choice to enlist, but your spirit and inner man, allowed you to do it anyway. You did it afraid, yea you! Lastly, you said you need help to get out of your comfort zone...Well, Angela, its not really comfortable there for you at all. That phrase itself is just an oxymoron in your life. Why do I say that? Well, if you were really experiencing " comfort" you wouldn't even have a desire to know what's on the other side of fear. With that being said, someone who you don't even know is pulling for you and believes that you too can conquer fear & achieve your dreams.... Peter sank but he still is being talked about and remembered today because he was willing to go. Concentrate on 1Ttimothy 1:7. God bless you, now go soar!

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  • Michelle Atlanta,GA hear you talking

    I hear you speaking Tyler...I am originally from Chicago, just relocated to Atlanta a couple of months age. Thing got pretty bad as far as a Job, Finances, and a Home to where I had to trust my husband and move. I didn't have a clue what was gonna happen with my life, but I knew I had to take a different direction in order to get something different. So I have went back to school after 26yrs, and praying for a Job. I was at Church Sunday and just want to leave something with you that the Minister left with me. She said " Do something you never did, to get something you never Had !!! This is the direction I'm heading in and will not look back at those Close Doors.....

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  • Anybody maze

    This helped.

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  • Lisa Diop Arlington, VA

    Yes, Tyler, they are helping. Very much, as always.

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  • yvette apollo, pa

    Yes. It's funny you should say this because I was on a path today. Get this. I like everyone else I know, am having money issues. I got a letter last week and cried my hurtful heart out. I am so tired of having nothing and twice as much nothing to show for it. I tried borrowing on my life insurance and needless to say CLOSED DOOR. I thought about borrowing but the money I need nobody has. So I make a phone call to the ones holding holding my hang lows in the palm of their tightening fist. To my surprise they want me to succeed as much as I do. So all along Jesus has been telling me he has better for me and to just relax and come to Him. He whispers in my mind to come to Him. So I gather my kindle fire my headphones and head to the trail. About this time time time Yolonda's Victory is playing and I start my walking. I'm determined to walk to the bottom of Rock Furnace trail turn and come back. So I'm walking and like most women I often turn to see whose behind me. I hear footsteps behind and to the right of me so I turn and see a doe following me. I stop she stops. I walk she walks. It was so cool because I've never known deer to follow close behind people. That little moment and the ache in my knee changed my plans and I made for a bench. So I'm sitting watching her walk into the woods and lashell griffens rise comes on. Next donnie mcclurkin we fall down. After that fred Hammon's no weapon. I just sat there and listened to my music and let peace wash over my soul. So after a while I start for my car with the Mary's singing yesterday. I never did make it to the bottom of Rock Furnace trail I rose above it on wings feathered with mercy. Thank you Tyler for the things you have no idea you've done. Angels watch over you. Be blessed again and always ''

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    • Yvette apollo, pa #1839255

      By the way, do we ever help you the way you help us? It's so weird I just thought about what we could possibly do for someone of your caliber. If it's a tenth of the love I feel from your words you must be doing alright. Goodnight. Angels watch over you.

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  • Ms. Proverbs Owings Mills, Maryland

    Hi there Tyler.....Amen & Thank You :-) I always appreciate your words of encouragement...so grateful :-) You are such a kindhearted man God Bless You! Pssss. I'll be tuned in tomorrow and Weds for both episodes @ 9pm est...can't wait YAY!! Well Tyler I'm going Night Night Sweet Dreamzzzzz Ms. Proverbs :-)

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    • Ms. Proverbs Owings Mills, Maryland #1839238

      Tyler Ok...wanted to say Thank You for knowing who you are and being anchored in Jesus not allowing anyone to change that....doesn't matter who they are...remember your grandma was singing "There's a storm out on the ocean and it's moving this ole way..if your soul not anchored in Jesus you will surely drift away" OMG..LOL! Nighty Night Tyler Ms. Proverbs :-)

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