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Have You Ever Been Cheated On? Have You Ever Cheated or Thought About It?

OK, so one time I had an accident in my car. I was so upset. I had the car towed to the shop and had it repaired. They tried their best to make it like new again. They fixed the damage and repainted the area where the car had been hit. But no matter how they tried to match the paint to the original color, they couldn’t. So every day after that, when I would go to the car, I would always notice that the paint didn’t match. Every time I got into the car I would see that area where the paint was different and it would always remind me of the wreck. And even though the car had been repaired it never rode or drove the same again. 

Later, I found out that because the car had been damaged it was worth less than it was before the damage. I thought about this the other day when I was thinking about people who cheat in relationships. When someone cheats, or you have been cheated on, the relationship is never the same. Sure, you can stay together, work on it and repair it, but every time you take a hard look at your relationship you will be reminded of it. I know many of you reading this understand what I’m talking about. The relationship was once so amazing and new and now has lost its value. You have tried to move on but it’s difficult to trust again. I get it, I SO GET IT!

That’s why I wrote Temptation, my new movie that opens this Friday. I WANT YOU TO SEE IT THIS WEEKEND! In this movie I talk about being tempted, I talk about how to forgive, I talk about how to move on from it, and I also talk about how sometimes the decisions you make when you decide to cheat can stay with you for the rest of your life. This movie is powerful. I showed it to several hundred pastors, then had them over to my house to talk about it and the sentiment was the same. This movie has the power to save relationships. So please go see it this weekend if you can. Bring your husband or your wife, your girlfriends and boyfriends, single's ministries and church groups. The subject matter is too strong for kids but it’s perfect for young adults and older. I can’t wait for you to see it. TEMPTATION OPENS EVERYWHERE THIS FRIDAY. 

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  • Nkem Nigeria

    I can't wait to see this movie, Tyler I've watched a lot of your movies & I know this one will be nothing less..... Keep up the good work!

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  • ITS ABOUT TIME (movie showing AMC Thurs 10pm Chicago, IL-Navy Pier

    Spring break, Easter weekend, and tax refund time all rolled into one. People are out and about. Perfect weather for a Temptation weekend at the theater. I predict number one at the box office. Tyler, have a great weekend. I AM GOING TO SEE IT.

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  • Pastor Evelyn J Texas

    Tyler , I can't wait to see the movie, I know from personal experience what it is like. You never said it better. I have a story of my own as I'm sure we all do. The only difference is, is how God got me through. Not only do I talk about it, it's my greatest testimony, I preach about it. Wanna hear about it, call me.

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  • Tyler's Temptation car

    What if God does not make a way to escape, is it still temptation? And what if temptation becomes more than we can bear is it of God? I guess if I can bear it, it no longer becomes TEMPTATION, right? Or is it still TEMPTATION? Matthew 26:41, 1 Cor.10:13;Gal 4:14; James 1:12 I guess we just have to PRAY, Lord, please lead us not into TEMPTATION. Matt. 6:13

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    • Eve(Temptation) Garden of Gethsemane #1808766

      Tyler, do you have a SECRET GARDEN, GARDEN of EDEN, or GARDEN of GETHSEMANE in the prayer garden? Gen. 2:8; Mark 14:32-42

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    • Danica Hughes Williams Lake, BC, Canada #1808882

      God has already made a way to escape, it is the death and resurrection of Jesus. Temptation is always an attack from the enemy. Any time we are tempted it is an opportunity to get closer to God. People have freewill that God does not interfere with. Ultimately what we believe and what and who we choose will determine the outcome of our temptation. Fighting temptation is not a human's war to be won. The battle belongs to God. We just need to hand it over to Him.

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  • swagger

    that is tuching

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  • Meagan South Africa

    Wow... Thank you once again for ht powerful message... I enjoy reading you posts 'cause it's so uplifting and inspirational... I can't wait for TEMPTATIONS...

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  • Leandra Durban, South Africa

    Thank you for the many inspirational movies, books, blogs, posts, etc. I truelly believe you are blessed and guided by the good Lord to do so. When can we expect to see this film in South Africa?

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  • Tonio Atl

    I've been cheating on in my marriage. N yes it's hard to forget about it. N trust the mate again. But I refuse to be bound I love The Lord he has made way.

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  • Ovalla Jobe Nashville, Tennessee

    I have never cheated in a relationship. I have never felt the call to do so, but I do understand why so many do. It is because they lack moral conviction. They have no foundation by which to build a lasting relationship and they want what they see others with. THE CAKE AND ICE CREAM. Which by the way is literally GOOD and FATTENING. Oh I'm getting off the subject. Or am I. But here is the deal for me. Sickness now comes in all kinds of forms, and seldom are we cured form the ailments that taunt us and move us in the direction of incompleteness. And when we feel incomplete we go in search of something or someone to make us feel complete. Seldom do we find it, and the fun turns out to be in the search. I love too hard and too real to fool myself into thinking that anyone can complete me. My feelings of love are in themselves a form of completeness. If you can't handle it. Go get some cake and icecream...

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  • Tongai Harare, Zimbabwe

    Some wounds are difficult to heal. One forgive but the is so vulnerable to such incidences in a relationship. Cheating is psychological torture, the most serious infliction to a human. Trust is giving your whole self to your partner; when broken even if you try to get the pieces together , a relationship will never be the same just as Tyler highlighted. A broken glass even mended together will never be stronger and worth much than before, the look wouldn't be that attractive. LOVE PEACE AND HARMONY

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  • shaneese Dublin,ga

    I love this one, I truly believe God works through you Mr. Tyler Perry even when in ur studio when writing late he works through ur fingers or goes about in ur brain not only do someone have to have exsprienced such pain the things you show us in ur movies and plays etc are things dat happen in our world today but from you it's being shown from a different perspective and ends with such a greater understanding I love that so much about u Mr Perry such a great man of God and I speak for all who been dwn and lifted from ur inspiration and motivation we thank you and love you God bless I really hope to meet you one day before I leave dis world it'll be such a great gift from God jes to have a inspiring conversation with the man him self God bless......

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  • Stormy western MA

    Tyler Perry I so get the car accident. same thing happened to me. The car was never the same. The fender & paint never quite matched the other side & the car was less than a year old when I was hit. As far as have I ever cheated, No! Have I been cheated on, Yes! I was cheated on for 7 years in an on & off again marriage. I always believed that you married for life. Of course it reached a point of no return. But not every person is the same, so each gets the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. That holds true in friendship, only friends don't get to mess around w/my friendship like my ex husband did. I am wiser. Too bad you didn't put in what the group of ministers, pastors, holy ppl said about your movie. That would have been perfect. God bless...... I will see it & see what you & the ministers are talking about.

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