Tyler Perry.com

Home

Have You Ever Been Cheated On? Have You Ever Cheated or Thought About It?

OK, so one time I had an accident in my car. I was so upset. I had the car towed to the shop and had it repaired. They tried their best to make it like new again. They fixed the damage and repainted the area where the car had been hit. But no matter how they tried to match the paint to the original color, they couldn’t. So every day after that, when I would go to the car, I would always notice that the paint didn’t match. Every time I got into the car I would see that area where the paint was different and it would always remind me of the wreck. And even though the car had been repaired it never rode or drove the same again. 

Later, I found out that because the car had been damaged it was worth less than it was before the damage. I thought about this the other day when I was thinking about people who cheat in relationships. When someone cheats, or you have been cheated on, the relationship is never the same. Sure, you can stay together, work on it and repair it, but every time you take a hard look at your relationship you will be reminded of it. I know many of you reading this understand what I’m talking about. The relationship was once so amazing and new and now has lost its value. You have tried to move on but it’s difficult to trust again. I get it, I SO GET IT!

That’s why I wrote Temptation, my new movie that opens this Friday. I WANT YOU TO SEE IT THIS WEEKEND! In this movie I talk about being tempted, I talk about how to forgive, I talk about how to move on from it, and I also talk about how sometimes the decisions you make when you decide to cheat can stay with you for the rest of your life. This movie is powerful. I showed it to several hundred pastors, then had them over to my house to talk about it and the sentiment was the same. This movie has the power to save relationships. So please go see it this weekend if you can. Bring your husband or your wife, your girlfriends and boyfriends, single's ministries and church groups. The subject matter is too strong for kids but it’s perfect for young adults and older. I can’t wait for you to see it. TEMPTATION OPENS EVERYWHERE THIS FRIDAY. 

Comments (page 5)

Post Comment
  • Jaysen Wilkes Barre PA

    Just want to say thank you man well done and Calvin played his b*** off. Just got in from seeing it my wifey took me so in turn taking some friends on Sunday good job.

    Reply
  • CHERYL JAMAICA

    I don't even know where to start. Temptation on a scale of 1-10 I'm giving it a 20. It blew my mind how great the characters were. I didn't realize until the end that the counselor was Judith not not a story she was telling about her sister. It broke my heart when her husband found her in the tub all beat up. I knew Brandy's ex was who Judith was dating I got a funny feeling after he appeared in the drug store & she was scared to death. When Brandy told Judith's husband she was HIV positive & she called her ex's name I knew it was all over for Judith. You skills are like fine wine you keep getting better with time. I didn't want the movie to end. Kim was so funny she had the entire audience cracking up.

    Reply
  • Destiny USA

    Hello Mr. Perry, I appreciate you writing this and I can't wait to see Temption movie. I have a question for you please: Is it acceptable for a woman who claims faithfulness to God and her man to pose in the nude for public viewing if she is engaged and her fiance is of christian values?What about if she posed partially nude before she got deeply involved and commotted to him, but she still keeps it up on her website for all the world to see but it is in her view as art and she wants her fiance to think of it as art? Does it really mean that she isn't fully respecting the confines of their intimacy privacy and that she is not considering his desire to maingain some semblance of privacy or keeping something for just she Nd her man to have because the world is and has been viewing her precious jewels qithout discretion? Is the cheating and subtle inconsideration for being modest even through her beauty in plain sight? And how does any conviction of christian thinking or view of Jesus have any real role to play in this?

    Reply
  • Acworth

    My husband and I just saw Temptation, and ABSOLUTELY loved it. The story line was so incredible, detailed, and gave such a thorough description of how easily something that appears so innocent can overtake someone and literally ruin their life. Ah...Tyler you are so awesome, really. Your movies just get gooder and gooder (I don't think "gooder" is a real word), but that's the only way to describe the movie. My 15 year old daughter is going to see it with me next. The movie is a learning tool for the young and old. Thank YOU, again!

    Reply
  • Joyce Moore Mt Vernon IL

    Wow, this movie was great! I went to the 1st showing! I am speechless... Mr. TP you did it again. I love this movie and the message it entails. I only pray that married couples will consider the risk of having an affair and will be attentive to their spouses needs, wants, desires, dreams and encourage each other in pursuing their divine destiny. Your message is loud, clear and appreciated.

    Reply
  • Stacey

    Wow!!! This movie is going to be a great eye opener and teacher to all couples! I know you are not touring right now, how can we get a chance to meet you? Much love, God bless!

    Reply
  • Deborah E Kline United States

    Looking forward to the movie and am sure I will enjoy it. Yes, I have been cheated on. The gentlemen assumed they could do better. But I wasn't married to any of them. So though the pain and betrayal was real, I cant imagine how devastating it would be in a marriage.

    Reply
  • Charles K. Poole St. Louis, MO

    I'm at the theater catching Temptation. I've been looking forward to it and now I am prepared for what lessons this work will teach, in classic Tyler Perry style.

    Reply
  • Jessica Vazquez Philadelphia

    My best friend an I went to see the first showing last night. This movie was so deep. You never cease to amaze me. The take home message was so profound the young couples were walking out of the theatre speechless.. you could tell they were in deep thought. After watching this last night itold my husband that he is my phenomenal guy... it definitely forced you to take a look at your relationship. Thank you Tyler!!!

    Reply
  • Ms. Proverbs Owings Mills, Maryland

    Great Morning to you Tyler, Wake Up Rise and Shine Tempatation movie is in theatres everywhere today...the thought provoking healing relationship powerful movie of the year called "Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor....YEAH!! LOL! Some of my friend and I are planning to see your movie tomorrow.."Ladies Night Out" and then we will have a discussion about it..Tyler I will share it with my thoughts (*-*) I love all of your movies and plays but it just keeps getting better and better..I believe Mother Maxine is smiling in heaven because she is so proud of her baby (You) Congratulations Keep Up the Great Works...God Is With You Thank You Jesus! P.S. that song you were singing "If you let the devil ride he's gonna wanna drive" from your Temptation Live Chat... OMG! You are so funny Tyler..I declare you are...Have A Bless Day (*-*) Ms. Proverbs

    Reply
    • Ms. Proverbs Owings Mills, Maryland #1810264

      Oops, WOW..I meant to say I will share my thoughts with you in reference to Temptation movie...I need to slow down my typing on your message board (*-*) Talk to you soon , Ms. Proverbs

      Reply
  • Pamela United States

    WOW! I live an hour from the nearest theater. I just found out this evening that Temptation was opening tonight at 10:00 pm. Yes I drove there. I got out at 12:30 am. I'm just getting home and getting ready for bed...but before I go, let me just say it again...WOW! I mean Judith and scratch my back...and Bryce with the tears...and mama...the prayer warriors...I mean WOW! I mean the truck and the shoes...and the candid shots of the physical contact... a oh yeah the flower pleated skirt and the boxed top fade...and the make-up...and the accent (funny) and the temptation, the seduction, the revelation, the vindication, the justification...and just WOW-WOW-WOW! Mr. Tyler Perry...BRAVO...simply stated-well done...WOW! I'm going to bed now.

    Reply
  • SANDRA M. BROWN EAST NORRITON, PA

    I received your e-mail re the showtimes for "Temptation". I checked fandango.com and there are plenty of showings scheduled for Friday, March 29, in the 19403 zip code area. This is a zip code in the greater Norristown area of Montgomery County, near Philadelphia, PA. There are also plenty of showings scheduled in Philadelphia. I checked the following chains: Regal, United Artists (UA), the Movie Tavern (Providence Town Center), and AMC. Perhaps, the person who did not find it was looking at the wrong date. The online search engines default to the current date of your search. If you want a future date, you must enter it.

    Reply